Stephen asks: "I am trying to find a 'real' adult dating site. The people on there either do not exist or are trumped up.It seems all that I have come across do not have real/true information... I sent the company an email to complain, but they didn't reply.And when I clicked on a picture, the city and/or state changed to someplace nearby... There has to be a legitimate adult dating site out there. "Welcome, Stephen, and thanks to my colleague, sexuality expert Cory Silverberg, for sending you my way.To answer your question: it depends on what you mean by legitimate.
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