If you are dating someone who doesn’t have a personal relationship with Christ, you are playing with fire. Don’t let the relationship progress to a physical point and then hope you can cut it off later. You need all the help you can get in today’s world. Do you depend on Him to meet your needs of love and security? If you can’t stand the person but have a great physical relationship, rethink the relationship. If one person is uncomfortable with any type of physical expression, don’t do it. Don’t push a date to do anything that makes him/her feel uncomfortable. This does not mean you won't have feelings for each other but true love is not feelings alone. We as Christians are commanded to be led by the Holy Spirit, not by how we feel.Romans For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God.If you have to use your body and how far will you go to keep him around, you don't want him around. If you are not to the point in your Christian walk with the Lord Jesus Christ that you have purposed to sacrifice your will and have chosen to follow His then you are not yet mature enough and the results of your self-willed actions will be disastrous for both of you.To put it bluntly, if you have not already decided to follow God's Word (Christ) you are in for one hell of a life, because you will reap what you sow. IF you are a Christian, that means you have voluntarily chosen to be measured by a different ruler.
Ephesians 4:4-5 4 Even as [in His love] He chose us [actually picked us out for Himself as His own] in Christ before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy (consecrated and set apart for Him) and blameless in His sight, even above reproach, before Him in love.He will slander her and you if you give him the chance.A Godly husband protects his wife; a Godly man protects his sister.Home Salvation The Sinner's Prayer Current Articles Encouragement Bible Studies Women's Studies Bible Study Tools Spiritual Growth Christian Family & Home Help for Victims of Abuse Suicide Sermons Divorce and Adultery Sex - God's Guidelines The Church Today Witchcraft and Sorcery Testimonies Tracts Prayer Requests Missions ITLM News Ministry Information Contact Us Site Index One of the most asked questions by single Christians is about dating and marriage. This subject is one of the most far reaching choices a person can make. Most of the time because these two questions are either never asked or the answer not followed it is disastrous. Children having sex with children and having more children is a common statement. In every area of life large and small these two questions should be asked and the answers sought. You're not a real woman unless you can attract a man.They serve as an example of those who suffer the punishment of eternal fire. Jesus did not go to the cross because He felt like it.He went because it was the Father's will; He went because He loved us.It's called the Word of God, not what the world thinks is right.Our society for the most part condones premarital sex. 1 Corinthians 6:9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, 10 Nor cheats (swindlers and thieves), nor greedy graspers, nor drunkards, nor foulmouthed revilers and slanderers, nor extortioners and robbers will inherit or have any share in the kingdom of God.1 Corinthians Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Physical touch/intimacy should correspond with commitment. This doesn’t mean anything goes if you are engaged. What is your motivation -- power and control, gratifying your own ego, meeting a selfish need, or genuine affection? If you feel convicted of certain behaviors, stop doing them.