In this excerpt, authors Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz write about why sexting while in a relationship can make you fall in love all over again.
If you are reading this chapter it means that you have successfully passed through the early stages of flirtexting and into a fabulous committed relationship. Now, just because you have entered into the land of “we” does not mean that you can call up your cell phone provider and cancel your unlimited texting plan.
) Texting helps make long distance more bearable by having the ability to be in constant contact. Talk about how your salad came with a really big cucumber and you thought of him. Be a little selfish when you dirty text and say things that will turn you on in the meantime.
The need for sexting heightens when you’re not around one another.
Now, before you remind me that I'm speaking about a fictional character, I'll let you in on a little secret: I was raised by a man who lived this way and know a few men who live this way now, and make no mistake: they do wonderfully with women.
Did you know that what and when you text back will determine where your relationship will go?
Sure, it’s not the real deal, but hey, it beats nothing at all! Talk about that thing he did to you last night that you loved.
(Um, did we mention this is a great form of safe sex? Text what you want to do to him when you see him next or what you are dying for him to do to you.