It's all about give and take." —janetm43885b0d5 "In all honesty, being an introvert gave me a secret dating weapon.
If I spend time with someone I have feelings for and end up feeling completely socially exhausted, chances are that person and I aren't going to work out.
However, whether you're an introvert or just shy, you do need to be more social, just so you have a chance to meet people.
You may also need to learn how to make small talk, as well as how to ask a girl on a date.
It sounds lame and corny, but the walking leaves plenty of room for non-awkward silence and people watching makes for good conversation.
Dress in a comfortable way and talk to people your friends are/were talking to about something you/they find interesting.Being able to sit together and to just 'be' without having to talk or verbally interact can be such a welcome reprieve for an introvert." —Jamie Lee Wilson, Facebook "As an introvert married to an extrovert, open communication is key.When we first started dating, I would get frustrated because he would put me in situations that made me uncomfortable without realizing it or meaning to (taking me to places I didn't know anyone but him and wandering off to talk to someone else, or taking me to loud, noisy places, for example).I do things I'm passionate about so I'm speaking about what I really care about and it's not just meaningless conversations.My boyfriend and I often go to the Supreme Court or embassies." —kelseykw "For me, I've found it much easier to date other introverts!They will have other friends and you will eventually end up meeting people." —ameliag4a2dd527b "Ask fun questions about their likes and interests. " —William Gallagher, Facebook "When you're talking to someone you think you could be interested in, remember that you're looking to see if you are interested in them, not if they are interested in you.Once I thought of it that way, I was a lot less anxious and worried about being likable." —mrctheamazing "As an introvert, you will never find 'the one' if you think that is defined by instantly feeling comfortable with someone.wiki How's mission is to help people learn, and we really hope this article helped you.Now you are helping others, just by visiting wiki How.During the awkward silences you can just get on with your activity, but conversation is still possible.Especially handy if what you're doing gives you something to talk about." —eofw "The best date for me, as an introvert, is going on a nice walk.