Women compete for your attention, hanging off you laughing, playing with their hair, touching you.Your friends think you’re The Man and everyone else wants to meet you. If she does, she’s pretty likely to just offer you her phone number.This is part of female psychology – don’t give the feeling that you came in, got what you wanted, and then left suddenly.Even though it’s not really logical, it can give her that “feeling used” emotion, especially if her friends are watching. This happens over and over and it’s driving me F-ing crazy. They learn some of the Love Systems building blocks of attraction – teasing, role plays, disqualification, storytelling and so on, and it’s lots of fun. (Think of how many women love flirting with gay men.) We see this a LOT with guys who are pretty new to Love Systems.If you’re dancing with her and she insists on remaining in her friend circle while she gives your cock a half-assed grind, you’re not getting her out. She can do this by either resuming the conversation after an awkward pause or trying to seek you out after excusing herself to the bathroom. If you got her number without hinting what you want to do with her (e.g.
Phone game experts Braddock and Samurai cover this pretty thoroughly in their book, The Ultimate Guide to Phone and Text Game, so I’ll let it be the last word here.During the day it’s a lot easier to tell if a number will lead to a date or not.Simply multiple the number of personal questions she asks you by the length of conversation in minutes.But to actually get anywhere with any woman worth being with, you need to lock in that attraction. (And that’s better than you asking for it.) Some women play hard to get or want you to make the first move – fine. Stay at least a few minutes in the conversations after getting her phone number.You need to turn yourself from “random guy she had a fun conversation with” to “man she needs to see again.” Experienced men know that that comes through Qualification (making her chase you) and Comfort (the right kind of emotional connection). They don’t spark the fireworks and your buddies won’t be staring in awe. Be the person she’s going to want to talk to tomorrow – during her normal life – not just the person who is fun to flirt with when she’s hyped up at a bar. (Stay as long as you want if you want to make something that happen that night.) Obviously, sometimes that’s not going to be possible, like if her friends are dragging her away. But if there is no obvious reason for the conversation to end all of a sudden, then don’t end it suddenly.The number should only be exchanged when absolutely necessary, when the forces of nature will separate you and the only way you’ll ever see her again is if you get her contact information. Did the first break in the conversation come under the 10 minute mark?There are a lot of things in a night venue that can cause a pause in the conversation, like her phone making noises or her friend cockblocking you. There’s a lot of debate over whether kissing a girl increases the chance of seeing her again, but let me ask you the following question: if a girl gave her number to ten guys over the weekend, and she was at a similar level of sobriety for each, is she more likely to remember the guys she kissed or didn’t?If you’re putting her in your phone, put your number in hers too.Not because she’ll call you first (most hot girls won’t, but some will text) but so she’ll know it’s you when you get in touch.As long as you get them because you’ve tried escalating as far as you can, and you don’t become excited over only digits, go ahead and play the numbers game to grind out bangs from regular dating. That’s why I came to you.”A one-on-one client said this in our ‘entry interview.’ The guy is a genuine B-List celebrity. Hot girls who were never into you before follow you around with puppy dog eyes.