They know as a foreigner in Korea you attract a lot of attention and they may assume that you must have many girls chasing you.
They will certainly start any relationship with suspicion. Early on, you may find that your new girlfriend will want to check your phone for evidence of you seeing another woman.
As result, they still have to follow their parents’ rules.
It is common for young women to have curfew even into their 30s.
If you are stubborn and insist on not showing your phone, she will eventually get her hands on it and check it whether you like it or not.
Some Korean women, especially older ones, tend to have a fantasy of meeting a foreigner and escaping patriarchal Korean society. You are clearly a more positive alternative than marrying a Korean guy and having to deal with an evil Korean mother-in-law or other intrusive family members.
When a Korean girl dates a foreigner, they are scared that their new boyfriend may think they are easy.
So, Korean women may be more cautious dating a foreign man than when dating a Korean man.
Your goal is not only to travel, work or study here, but also to live here and experience the culture.If you decline her requests to see your phone, then you are automatically guilty as a womanizer.Don’t whine about it being your personal privacy, just hand over the damn phone. The act of allowing her access to your phone will go a long way in gaining her trust quickly and destroy her suspicions.They are checking to see if you are just looking for an easy girl.Treat the girl with respect, and don’t be too aggressive in the beginning and she will realize that you are looking for something more meaningful.Pushing for ‘skinship’ or something more intimate too soon will cause her to doubt your intentions.If you are a white, young, and somewhat handsome, male then a lot of Korean girls will quickly and automatically judge you as some sort of playboy or womanizer.A lot of Korean women hate Korean traditions and culture which tend to favor Korean men. When you start to date a Korean woman, they may already be thinking of marrying you and returning to your home country one day.I suggest you be clear early in the relationship about your future plan about returning home and if that plan includes her.Note: The article ’10 Things You Must Know About Dating Korean Girls’ was meant to be for fun.I am speaking from just my own personal experience as a white male and, of course, these points do not refer to all Korean women.