But it’s still, like any good love story, something you kinda want to believe in.
Especially for dudes, who can’t ever seem to stop thinking about, caring about and obsessing about The One Who Got Away (who is often from their high school years).
On the flip side, divorce rates within the first 10 years for high school sweethearts (54 percent) were much higher than the average American couple (32 percent).
It’s not all heartbreak, though: 78 percent of high school sweethearts who wait until at least the age of 25 to marry make it beyond their 10th anniversary.
She's enjoys writing music, poetry and fiction and hopes to have her first novel out soon.Eventually, that leads you right back to the person who you trusted with your heart. Despite the big split, you’re still friends on social media. Your high school sweetheart was there when you shared all your dreams and thought anything was possible.You talk regularly, comment on photos, and can’t imagine not sharing your big moments with him. While guys you dated in college and after might laugh at some of those dreams, he still believes in you. You wondered if you could’ve made the long distance thing work. They love bringing up the past and trying to get you both together, usually by tricking you into a big group outing and suddenly leaving the two of you alone.We went to different universities (though we were still in the same city), and were looking for different experiences.He was being really social and going out a lot, whereas I’ve always been a bit of a homebody. I went through a bit of a mental health scare — I was anxious and depressed — and I felt like he didn’t know how to support me.Suddenly, the spark you thought had died comes back to life and you realize you were meant to be together all along.Here’s why it’s not totally impossible: You both just needed time to grow.He was my first kiss and, barring a few same-sex explorations during college, he’s also my first and only sexual partner.We’ve never had a breakup that’s gone on for longer than, say, the span of an argument.He even reminds you of dreams you’d pushed to the side. The moment you see him again, it all comes flooding back and realize the breakup was a big mistake. They know how happy he makes you, so listen to them. He’s just a ex, so why do you feel so jealous when you see him dating someone else? Give it some time and you might end up back with him. You haven’t thought about him in years, but you go back for a high school reunion or run into him after moving back to your hometown.It could be a sign you never got over him and don’t really want to. All those happy memories flood back in along with emotions you thought you’d left in the past. Those deal breakers when you were 18 don’t seem like a problem now. Besides, he’s grown too and left his childish issues behind, just like you have. Other guys have told you they loved you, but you know that he’s still the one who loved you more than anyone. It’s not jaded by bad dates, horrible breakups, liars and cheaters. Sometimes, that’s the love that lasts, no matter what happens between high school and now.