Kissing her at the end of the date is okay, but waiting until the end of the date to kiss her for the first time is not.If you have to wait until the very end of the date to lock lips with your woman, you’ve done something wrong.Now, don’t get me wrong, nice guys can often finish first with women (as my friend Kevin Alexander will tell you) but trying to be too nice, or trying to be someone you’re not, never works!Guys who try to play into the nice-guy role are guys who just don’t have the confidence to be true to who they really are. They don’t have to “try” to be nice, they just are.When someone is their best self, they are all they can be and nothing more. Somewhere along the line paying for a woman when a man took her out on a date became shunned upon by the men’s self-help community.They’ve worked at mastering their weaknesses and harnessing their strengths and they’ve overcome whatever challenges they’ve faced in life. Perhaps it was a necessity in the empowerment of man, and something that self-improvement-seeking men, especially in dating, needed to hear.
Keep this in mind when you are deciding who is and who is not “girlfriend material.” Being “The Nice Guy” is not an effective strategy when trying to woo a woman. That double vibration is a sign of 'god she’s desperate'. Unless you're a baby mama don't EVER post a photo with a baby. Put your height in the tagline if you’re short or tall. If you're in a Tinder trance make a rule that when you come across the next person who shares an interest or mutual friend with you it's time to call it a night. We’ve all gotten advice at some point or another in our lives. “Just be yourself” takes the cake as being the worst piece of advice you can possibly get. By being yourself, and being the same person who has an ineffective dating life, you will not succeed!People love giving their two cents to others when it concerns something they presume themselves to be an expert in. People who say, “Just be yourself,” really mean “Just be your part. Learn the difference between 'you' and 'you’re' - men like intelligent women. It's not really the first impression he's looking for. Nothing’s worse than no matches (after sifting through half the country). One is never enough even if you're the sexiest human being ever.