Maybe you hate the outdoors and would never in a million years be caught doing watersports.
There’s nothing stopping you from exploring a phone sex fantasy of getting it on in a raft in the lake when the lake..in your mind.
So, make sure you both block out enough time to do this after things get hot and heavy on the phone.
Although, phone sex quickies can be just as hot too Imagine you had that sexy conversation right as your partner was about to leave work and come home?
Although laughing through the awkwardness may work for some people, if it takes you out of the moment, try redirecting to an earlier point of the conversation. I bet you can imagine my warm lips on your penis right now.” Or shift the onus back to your partner with a hot potato-y “tell me more about what you’d do to me."Let’s say your partner goes from 0–60 real fast and starts calling you names you find disrespectful.
It’s important for both parties to understand that it’s okay to call a "detour" (detour is a word that can keep things moving, as opposed to stop).
It’s hard to believe that through all the technological breakthroughs, long-distance sex is still pretty much the same as it was in 1876 when Alexander Graham Bell invented the telephone so women could describe their ankles to guys over the phone. But phone sex can really feel like that if you don’t know what you’re doing.
Luckily, Lauren Rules, a professional phone sex operator with over 15 years of experience, is here to give her top 14 tips on how to have the best, most non-awkward phone sex of your life.
Lauren suggests, “Imagine I’m a sex robot you can program to do whatever you want. Imagine if I had done [insert alternative sexy activity].” Some jumping off points, should you need: “What if you realized I was wearing a strap-on under my bikini?Lauren says to draw out your words using soft whispers and sprinkle in a few playful sighs here and there while you’re talking.It helps if you’re already turned on before you talk on the phone.Try teasing your partner like you’re also a music streaming service who refuses to give in to Taylor Swift's demands.Lauren suggests “setting the stage” with a quick call or flirty text that will make your partner really look forward to talking with you.“Imagine if we were at an elegant restaurant, and you were under the table cloth, eating me out while the waiter took our order.” or, “what if we were at a party full of sexy people and they all just started f*cking in front of us?”Make like your favorite reality show stars and start spilling!And for sexy situations: caught with an erection, caught masturbating, being alone in a castle, deserted beach, or BDSM party.Lauren says just like with IRL sex, it’s important to reconnect after phone sex with laughter and wind down talk after you both orgasm.Try sending off a “can’t wait to hear your voice tonight,” to leave them wanting more.And feel free to use a pet bedroom name if you have one.