Maybe you're lonely, horny, you want a girlfriend, need some company, or just need to get laid. We ALL want love, but some guys blow it by rushing.
A "positive mental attitude" simply means not being negative ... seeing the good in things and people and situations ... and what defines "good-looking" is unique to every man.Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - so ladies, please don't think you need to be some perfect-looking little hottie in order to snag a good midlife bachelor - no.I absolutely guarantee you that no matter what you look like, there is a man out there right now that thinks you are hot (even if you are built like a buffalo or a rhinoceros ...Plus, your experience and maturity give you more depth and better perspective in life. We're rooting for you men, so go get 'em (just don't go too fast).What Mid-40s Men Want in a Woman I surveyed a number of my good midlife male friends over the past several weeks - trying to figure out what most men our age REALLY WANT in a woman. Now I'm 43, and most of my close friends are between 40 and 45 or so ... In other words, what you are about to see transcends educational levels and professions ...You can be romantic and take the lead, but exercise patience.Guys that are too fast getting in are probably going to be too fast getting out.And when you've accrued a decent amount of courtship hours, then you can bang away.TOO FURIOUS Ok, so you're livid at your ex, or fuming about the divorce, or bitter you're still on after all these years. We get your circumstances might suck, but don't let it consume you.Chivalry and romance aren't dead -- in fact, they're alive and well and much appreciated.So take your time getting to know your date; ask questions, be curious.