You missed our wild days and we're settled down now. We've learned a lot from our previous relationships. It's not like a guy who's five years older than you is going to be taking you out for the Denny's early bird special ever day before promptly going to bed, but odds are those 5 a.m. We can still drink people under the table, we just don't want to do it at some crappy, crowded dive bar. We don't want to be shoving our way through a bunch of sweaty people to get them. You're going to hear stories about "the old days" and wonder why we aren't as fun anymore. All right, so no one knows what they want, but we've got a job, if not a career, and some money saved up, because we already did that thing where you spend all your money and then have no money.7. So, you just started dating an older man for the first time but worry that you're ill-equipped for what the relationship will entail. Because you're already dating, it's clear that you're awesome and will be just fine, despite your age difference.If that doesn't put your nerves at ease, here are a couple tips for dating a "seasoned" Mr. One of the biggest allures for younger women dating older men is the fact that older men tend to be more established.Don't expect too much Older dudes sometimes complain (to me at least) that the older women they know are too sedentary and set in their ways.Not to p--- on your parade, but be aware that most of us 20-somethings are more than capable of being pretty damn lazy and stubborn too.But just because you were her age once, it doesn’t mean that dating a young woman is always plain sailing. Whatever the age gap, here’s how to date a younger women successfully. Youth might imply less experience, but it doesn’t mean a lack of empathy, nous and emotional intelligence.And remember, it's kind of sexy when a man feels empowered enough to discuss his feelings.
These days the idea of young women dating older – often significantly older - men barely raises an eyebrow. A long stints in an asylum for the criminally insane? But just because she hasn’t shared a similar experience, don't feel that she wouldn't relate to your life or your issues; open up and you never know what wisdom she could offer.This might mean you both have different lifestyle expectations.It's courteous for both sides to be aware of the reality of the situation, and remember there’s a difference between generosity and showing off.While you initially marvel over his fancy home and career, you will quickly learn that he must work hard (and often) to pay the bills and continue climbing the corporate ladder.Sometimes, this means less attention for you and almost always means that you and bew cannot be together every waking moment.E Yes, it's gross and it doesn't need to be pointed out. Don’t assume you know better Keep a check on your tone; is it supportive or patronising?You may think you have all the answers, Mr Worldly Wise, but remember that anything you can do I can make into an 18-day argument that you do not yet have the life experience to deal with.She may be younger, but her feelings are just as genuine as yours. Do establish boundaries In some rather obvious ways you’re at different stages of life, so if you're just enjoying a fling make sure she isn't shopping for wedding dresses.Similarly, if you're getting attached and she's planning on moving to Japan for six months, you should probably have a super-fun and not-at-all-awkward conversation about “where you see this going”.Instead, work out a schedule to ensure that you both are able to spend time with one another without compromising your individual [email protected] I’m not sure exactly how long ago you commented on this post but, are you still with your S. I’m dating someone with the same age gap, and have never gotten along better or loved someone more in my whole life.I'm seeing a guy that is 10 years older than me and it makes me really nervous.