Which brings us to our next examples: Travel makes an awesome subject for a first message because it’s something most women enjoy doing, or at least enjoy dreaming about.
There’s a ton of variables involved, like your photos and your profile.
Many online dating sites like and Ok Cupid have keyword searches, so you can filter for women who also enjoy a certain hobby.
So if you’re into skiing for instance, you can can send a message like example #3 to any interesting women who have this word in their profile.
Besides, there’s plenty more interesting, attractive women out there so focus your efforts on them. Given that fact, why would you spend tons of time scanning each and every woman’s profile, then writing a message customized just for her? There’s a much better way to beat those odds, and boost your response rate at the same time.
Now let’s talk about the elephant in the room: copy & paste messages. Here at Virtual Dating Assistants, we’ve been using the copy and paste approach since 2009.