It's going to be a 2-for-1 package in any situation. she knows he annoys me, but is trying to give it a chance by getting a babysitter every now and then so we can get breaks and stuff. yea but have you been thrust into "dad role" before?
dude, you may be right, because she keeps saying that she is scared of what she will do if we break up because she is now a stay at home mom. you are responsible for their every move when you are watching them.
If not, you are an irresponsible phag for making a situation you are not willing to follow-through on. I volunteered in my daughter's preschool classroom and I can say that the 3-4 year old boys were totally out of control and tougher to keep in line.
Now that I've worked in a Kindergarten classroom, I can see how most have started to calm down and are easier to discipline.
But that's assuming you want to stick it out for that long. Sorry bro but I can't help but laugh at the fact you think her kid is straight up annoying and drives you crazy yet she doesn't give a F.
"All I care about is being the absolute best." - The Rock "I Will Not Be Outworked. You might have more talent than me, you might be smarter than me, you might be sexier than me, you might be all of those things. But, if we get on the treadmill together, there's two things: You're getting of first, or I'm gonna die. But that's assuming you want to stick it out for that long. i attempted to get off these meds to save money and to see how i did without them, now that ive been taking them for so long, i thought maybe i was "cured".
It's really that simple."- Will Smith no i dont think its because the kid isnt mine, i just genuinely dont like them much i just thought i would try..getting older so i thought i might have changed. Though I do think that you may need to address your "hatred" for children. Maybe talk to someone professionally to give you perspective so that you can make a more educated choice. then the irritation and anxiety set in and we started having problems. no i dont think its because the kid isnt mine, i just genuinely dont like them much i just thought i would try..getting older so i thought i might have changed.
I am beginning to regret it because now when we fight and i threaten to break it off, she mentions that she is scared of what she will do because she will have to go back to being an overworked single mother. Should I take some parenting class or something or move on? I dont think you can teach yourself to love kids if you really have no intention. A family friend did this and it turned what would have been a 6 month long rebound after getting divorced into a 4 year nightmare.
If you really love her like what you just said then give it time and give it a try to know the kid more. Edit: I also asked her to be a stay at home girlfriend so I could pay all her bills and so she would do all cooking cleaning, etc. When your girlfriend is old and moves in with you WITH HER KIDS, it's pretty hard to get rid of them without devastating your conscious. I think every man hates kids when they're too young to do any sports/etc.